The Spiritual Perspective
Ever wonder what the spiritual perspective is on genocide? On cheating? On getting back with your ex? On toxic people?
If so, this is your channel.
You identify as spiritual — but you’ve still got questions about how to show up in life’s messiest, most nuanced situations.
And you don’t have time for fluffy, feel-good answers that don’t hold up in the real world.
This is where you’ll find a grounded spiritual take on life’s hardest questions.
I’m Light Watkins — keynote speaker, author, and longtime meditation teacher — and every week, I share short, no-BS videos that help you zoom out, tune in, and reframe what you’re going through.
If you’re tired of surface-level advice and ready to go deeper, join me every Monday and Thursday for new episodes of The Spiritual Perspective.
Your next breakthrough might be one perspective shift away.
The Spiritual Perspective
Why The Post-Breakup Story ALWAYS Changes On Guys
Today’s Spiritual Perspective is for the guys—the spiritual guys.
Not the performative “nice guys,”
But the men who genuinely try to show up—with heart, presence, and integrity.
And yet, when things end, something unexpected happens:
The story that gets told about you doesn’t quite match the truth you lived.
Suddenly, you’re the narcissist.
The one who was emotionally unavailable.
The one who didn’t want to grow.
Or worse…
It’s a confusing—and often painful—experience.
Especially when you know you did your best.
This episode explores a dynamic that almost every conscious man has faced—but few truly understand:
Why do good men so often become the villain in her version of the breakup story?
It’s not just emotional.
And it’s not always personal.
There’s something deeper going on—rooted in the difference between male and female nature.
Here’s what you’ll take away:
Why men and women often remember the same breakup in completely different ways
How post-breakup blame is tied to evolutionary wiring, not just emotion
The deeper reason why some women need to paint the man as the bad guy in order to move on
What spiritually grounded men can do when the story being told doesn’t match the reality
A perspective shift that brings clarity, compassion—and closure
I’ve been through it myself—more than once.
And once I understood the spiritual mechanism behind it, everything changed.
Ladies—you’re more than welcome to watch.
Just know: this episode may challenge you.
But if you can take it in with openness, it might also illuminate some of your own past patterns.
Remember: being spiritual means holding multiple truths at the same time.
And in breakups? That’s more relevant than ever.